This post is a continuation of a post I did in December. I have again made a list (while procrastinating homework) that I hope my future daughters will consider. It's interesting to re-read what I have put in these lists and see if I am following my own rules.
- Be thoughtful when giving gifts. Hand-made is almost always better than something else more expensive.
- Get to know your aunts. They are actually a bit smarter than your mother ;)
- When a guy takes you to a nice restaurant, be kind and do not order the most expensive item on the menu.
- Give a toast.
- If it’s a friend’s party, stay to help and clean up.
- Bring tissues. And mints.
- Drink lots of water.
- Listen to your Grandfather’s stories. He’s pretty smart too.
- Listen to your dad and wear warm socks.
- Use a planner.
- Don’t give into the idea that your life ends when you get married. Your life starts when you get married (at least the best part of your life does)!
- Follow a reasonable budget.
- Don’t be afraid of the thrift stores!
- Take time to be quiet and just listen.
- Buy local.
- Ignore music and especially men that refer to women as “shawty.”
- Don’t knock it til you try it....this does not apply to alcohol and narcotics.
- When in doubt, wear a slip.
- Wear a belt.
- Cherish the time you have with your siblings growing up, one day you may live far away from them.
Okay, I'm sure we met like, maybe once?, but I love reading your posts. Your first list has inspired me and honestly I've copycatted a lot of your ideas for my future children. I think I would add: "Don't be afraid to love...again. Heartbreak helps you feel alive." That is something I've lived by and always been scared of; loving after you've been hurt. But love after that it always sweeter :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Kaylee! I think once at the singles ward in Tally? And I completely agree with you about having the courage to love again. It's so true!
ReplyDeleteThis is sweet and adorable. Rule No. 16 made me lol. :) Love your writings.
ReplyDeleteHa! Thanks Paige ;)
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